More middle name discussion yesterday evening, last night and this morning. Still no conclusion. I have my preference, which is mostly NOT to use this one name. Tom has his preference, which is mostly TO use said name, though he seems to be starting to wear down a little. I don't want to be pushy... but we're running out of time and I'm starting to think I might need to win this one at all costs. The other option is to ditch all our "family name" ideas and just use a random, meaningless, yet nice-sounding name as a middle name. That seems so....well, meaningless though.